Funny viral video relating to toyboy and cougar dating online

Titled ‘dog with a sex toy’ this funny viral ad for toyboy.com shows how more than just the dog gets forgotten when people meet online and fall in love. – Enjoy!

P.S. No dogs were harmed in the making of this video and received full pay in doggy treats.

I don’t think there’s a more painful or corrosive emotion in all the world than jealousy. As Shakespeare demonstrates so brilliantly in Othello, it can with terrifying speed destroy the thing you love. One of the ironies inherent in the situation you describe is that while there may be nothing to be jealous about, your paranoia may drive away your boyfriend and bring about the cruel ending you fear. So it’s crucial that you get a grip.

There is no evidence of lack of devotion on your man’s behalf and if you cease doing things simply because they have an element of risk, you’ll soon find you don’t get out of bed in the morning.

Of course, I understand that terrifying sense of peering into the abyss that comes with great passion. It’s only when you love something that dearly that you comprehend how terrifying it’s loss would be. But to close your heart for fear of pain is to say no to life itself. Do you really want to live your whole life in emotional neutral because some idiot once wounded you?

Look at what you tell me. For four whole years, in the prime of your life, you’ve had no romance in your life whatsoever. Like most women over the age of 35, you’ve probably found many of the good men are taken, just as your taste becomes even more discerning.

Furthermore, the pain of your past broken relationship makes you wary. Then, suddenly, you meet a ‘gorgeous’ man you love, who adores you back. Yet you can’t relish your good fortune for fear your young boyfriend will not want a family and may one day abandon you.

Well, it’s time to get real: you could easily date a man your own age, or much older, and find he doesn’t want children, or jumps ship for someone younger. Nothing is certain in this life. You can’t be entirely sure your boyfriend won’t eventually want to play happy families with you  -  most men of any age would be nervous about discussing a domestic future with someone they’ve been seeing for only six months.

I am not saying you shouldn’t recognise that there are generally some pitfalls involved in dating a younger man. Clearly, you might find your priorities are different. At 39 your biological clock is sounding its last urgent alarm, while at 28 your boyfriend’s still a big kid himself.

You may find his friendship group seems a little immature – while your mates may seem stuffy to him. But nobody ever said that dating a hot young man came with no downsides. You’re enjoying passionate sex at a time in life when many of your contemporaries in long-term relationships feel lucky if they manage a ten-minute clinch once a month after Top Gear. Many women your age would kill to be in your situation.

As one single friend said: ‘Excuse me if I don’t weep for someone whose biggest worry is if her handsome, virile young boyfriend is fancied by other women.’

Your situation is not unique. An increasing number of the 40 and 50-something women are know are stepping out with younger men. I have one 41-year-old friend who’s dating a lovely man 15 years younger.

Some of our friendship circle have told her she should drop him to find a partner her own age, ‘before it’s too late’. But my pal says the last thing she wants to be is some terrifying harridan eyeing up all men as potential sperm donors; she’d rather enjoy the here and now than abandon her chap for Mr Perfect, ‘as he probably doesn’t even exist’.

She says: ‘If there’s one thing worse than being 41 and childless, it’s being 41 and terminally single.’ I asked how she dealt with the jealousy factor and she just said evenly: ‘I know he could have the pick of girls his own age, so if he wants to be with me then there must be something he finds pretty compelling.’

Similarly, you don’t see Demi Moore beating herself up about all the young starlets her husband Ashton Kutcher (15 years her junior) could have wed. She is confident enough to believe she has a sophistication and glamour that trumps other women in his eyes.

Even if your deepest instinct is that your current pairing will not endure, why bring something joyful to a premature end? You’re far more likely to attract Mr Happy Ever After if you’ve got a sparkle in your eye and the flush of passion on your cheeks.   The best rule in love, as the Roman poet Horace knew, is carpe diem – seize the day!
Source: Rowan Pelling – Daily Mail

Now a study has showed that women who date, or are married to younger men consider themselves younger at heart than those who spend their time with an older man.

The survey of 1,000 women found that having a toyboy can make a woman feel an average of four years younger than they actually are.

It revealed that women with younger partners have a tendency to enjoy more outdoor activities and mix with people who have more youthful hobbies.

Most said that their partner made them feel four years younger, but one in ten claimed that having a toyboy knocked ten years off their age.

More than half said that their partner’s energy had rubbed off on them and 27 per cent said that they visit pubs and nightclubs more with a younger man.

Three in ten admitted that they make an effort to dress younger, and a sixth said they over-compensate for their age by trying harder to keep the relationship fresh and exciting.

A spokesman for dating site Toyboy.com, which carried out the research, said that U.S. television show Cougar Town, which stars Courtney Cox, had sparked a 102 per cent increase in membership.

Toyboy trend: U.S. show Cougar Town, which stars Courtney Cox, has inspired women to date younger men

‘That is the largest increase we’ve seen in the ten years since we launched and it shows women are no longer secretive about their preferences for a younger man,’ he said.

‘An increase in high profile toyboy relationships like Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher has also helped.

‘It’s always been believed having a younger man makes you feel younger and now we have proven this is true.

‘Whether it means going out more, dressing differently or trying new things they wouldn’t normally have done, it does seem having a younger man is the answer.’

The survey also showed that the greater the age gap, the happier a woman is likely to be.

Thirty-six per cent of those polled said that older men are more set in their ways, grumpy (27 per cent) and serious (22 per cent), while one in five believe that they are more boring and likely to be out of shape.

They claimed that younger partners, on the other hand, are more likely to make them laugh, and have a more relaxed attitude to life. But they admitted that older men were more chivalrous and trustworthy.

Of those who were previously in a relationship with an older man, one in six admitted to being on the lookout for someone younger.

But three in ten women said that they would not trust a younger man not to leave them for a girl his own age.

But Amanda Redman is about to do something Samantha never would –settle down.

The actress, 52, has become engaged to her long-term toyboy boyfriend Damian Schnabel.

The New Tricks star has been with mobile phone designer Mr Schnabel, 38, on and off for the past ten years.

In 2003, she left him for a passionate 18-month fling with actor Adam Rayner, who is 20 years her junior.

However, she and Mr Schnabel have been back together for the past four years.

Miss Redman recently called him ‘the love of my life’, adding: ‘He restored my faith in love.’

She confirmed the engagement yesterday and said the wedding was planned for September, but that she wanted to keep the details private.

She told the Daily Mail: ‘We are very excited to be planning our wedding and can’t wait to be married.’

The actress has one child, a daughter Emily, 22, from a failed marriage to actor Robert Glenister in the 1980s.

Congratulations from all of us at toyboy.com

Source: www.dailymail.co.uk By Sara Nathan | Photo: BBC

Jesus Luz has always dated older women.

The 23-year-old Brazilian model, who is the current toy boy lover of 51-year-old pop superstar Madonna, claims he has never been able to connect with girls his own age.

He said: “When I was younger, I liked to go out with one after the other, but when I got older I needed just one cool girl.

“I always liked being in a relationship. It’s difficult to meet a young girl who has a mature head. So I dated mature, older women.”

Discussing what he looks for in a woman, without mentioning his high-profile girlfriend by name, Jesus insists beauty is just one of the attributes that is important to him.

He told Britain’s Grazia magazine: “It’s really important that a woman has a spiritual life and an open mind. Beauty attracts me, but it’s not something I need.

“I have to feel I can trust a person. And there has to be humour. I’m a clown.”

Jesus also credits the photo shoot he and Madonna did for W Magazine for taking his modelling career to the next level.

The hunk – who started dating the ‘Hung Up’ singer shortly after the shoot – said: “It was going OK. Things were developing when I got the W job. It was a dividing of the waters, with a renowned magazine, a top photographer and an artist like Madonna.”

Source: contactmusic.com/Grazia magazine

However, Demi Moore, 47, said that she doesn’t understand why she’s been labeled a ‘cougar’. “I’m certainly not the first person to be in a relationship with a younger man, but somehow I was plucked out as a bit of a poster girl,” the actress told W magazine. Moore’s new husband, Ashton Kutcher, is 15 years younger than her and, unlike her ex Bruce Willis, shows no signs of baldness (yet). Despite the difference in looks, Moore insists she is in love with Kutcher and that age has nothing to do with their relationship.

There does however seem to have been a shift in women’s tastes in men over the last few years. According to a well-known online dating company, back in 2005 just 8% of single women in their 40s and 50s said they would date a man five or more years younger than themselves. Today, over a third said they would consider a younger man.

To ‘cougars’, younger men are the more attractive option: they usually have a much more open-minded attitude and zest for life, while seldom coming with the baggage of their middle-aged counterparts. At the same time, Toyboy.com male members are expressly looking to date older women precisely because they see them as more self-assured, free-spirited and appealing than women their own age.”

It seems the toyboy seeker has been given a make-over. Instead of the frustrated Mrs Robinson-type, we now see strong A-list celebrity women confidently discussing and showing off in public their relationships with younger men. This toyboy theme has been explored by Courtney Cox in the hit US TV show, Cougar Town, and by Catherine Zeta-Jones in the new movie, The Rebound, which tells the story of her 40-year-old character falling for a 25-year-old babysitter.

While many think that hair loss only affects middle-aged men, infact many men will start to suffer from Male Pattern Baldness in their 20s or 30s. By the age of 35, 40% of men will already be showing the early signs – a receding hairline and hair loss from the crown area.

But what are the bennefits of dating younger men and older women? Well first of all the guys are vibrant and have a real zest for life, this is somehting that can be quite lacking in men as they get older. Young guys are often in good shape and are also attractive, they are also up to date with the latest trends and fashions – this can often be something that older women find that they have a lot in common with. The so-called ’sex in the city’ generation of female 40 somethings are fashion savvy and have the same modern attitude towards life.

On the flip side older woman have a certain ‘allure’ that toyboys find hard to resist. Its often said that this is a mixture of their confidence and independence – they know where they are going and what they want, this can be a refreshing change when compared to women in their 20’s who are just starting out in life and can be indecisive and often quite ‘flakey’

There are no hard and fast rules that dictate why age gap relationships are becoming more popular but just look at the recent high profile celebrity couples that have gone the distance -

Sam Taylor-Wood and Aaron Johnson

Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher

Barbara Windsor and Scott Mitchell

Halle Berry and Gabriel Aubry

Mira Sorvino and Christopher Backus

Geena Davis and Reza Jarrahy

For many younger men, the idea of dating older women is becoming increasingly appealing for a number of reasons.

1) Acceptance. Be it celebrities, politicians or your own brother, having others trail blaze openly makes us much more comfortable as a society with the age gap. Though boy toy couples are still making headlines, it won’t be long until the topic becomes old news.

2) Extended Youth. Women and men are looking younger and younger versus older and older as we age. Though the fountain of youth is yet undiscovered, we are definitely getting close. Working out and eating healthy can turn a forty year old body into that of a twenty-something – thank you yoga! And of course, some turn to cosmetic enhancement, though that is by no means the only way to keep youthful, even if it is the easiest.

3) The Appeal of Experience. Let’s face it, experienced women know what they want, and how to get it. It’s not so much that they don’t have time for games, it’s just that they aren’t into it – games are for kids. For men and women, confidence consistently tops the charts as the most attractive character trait. The assuredness and no-nonsense that older women offer to younger men is becoming increasingly attractive as women in their own age group are more and more often buying into the cute-but-ridiculous style type (thanks a lot, Paris Hilton).

So how can a young man meet a woman of experience, and vice versa? Like any other situation, you’re not likely to find what you’re looking for at the bar. Seek out places that are likely to have men and women of all ages, in a comfortable atmosphere. Street festivals, art shows, museum exhibits and other community events are great for finding and meeting people, plus the subject matter of the event gives you a great conversation starter.

For those who want a more active approach, try online dating at www.toyboy.com. With the rise of  older women-younger men relationships it only makes sense to use a niche dating site.

The world no longer follows traditional conventions – so neither should you. Expand your horizons and at least think about how much fun a Boy Toy relationship could be for you. As the trend becomes more and more common, who knows if that sexy professor or young pool boy could be your next fun flirtation!

She hasn’t wasted any time in finding a hot young man to replace her other hot young man.
We hear she has a new guy in her sights since splitting with Jesus Luz, 23, last week. Tall dark and handsome Spanish model Jon Kortajarena, 24, looks suspiciously like tall dark and handsome Brazilian model Jesus.
Madge, 51, reportedly clapped eyes on him at a film premiere in New York. Wonder how long he’ll stay in Vogue.

Source: Daily Star