Hello (toy)boys and girls!
Hello there! I’m Jen. Nice to see you on my brand new blog!
I’ve been coming on this site for a few months now and having a ball, so when the people who run toyboy.com were looking for someone to talk about how this place works and what it’s like to date people from here, I put my hand up!
So I’ll be giving you the lowdown on my dates and sharing a few of my views and experiences of dating younger men. Because that’s what it’s all about round here!
For today, I’ll tell you a bit about myself and what I’m doing here on toyboy.com. I’m 42, I work in financial services and I’ve lived in Nottingham for the last ten years. Actually I do travel a bit in the UK for my job and I have friends all over the place. I’d say I’m fairly confident and generally pretty happy with life. I like all the usual stuff like eating out and going on hols. I do a bit of gym and running – I ran a half marathon last year, though never again!
Relationship-wise, well I’ve had a few of them. In my 20s and 30s I had a couple of long term boyfriends, which was great at the time. One of the things I’ve found though is that because I’m not a middle-aged family type, guys my own age can seem a bit… boring? There, I’ve said it. So in the last few years I’ve tended to date younger men. I feel like I’m young in mind and body and I love spending time with people with energy and a real zest for life.
I realised a couple of years ago that younger guys like that are my “type”. So it seemed like a logical step to find a dating website where I could be pretty sure that the men on it were in principle interested in someone like me. I’m just not looking for an older man.
My last long term relationship (or LTR, if you’re a dating site pro!) was with a lovely guy ten years younger than me. We had a fantastic year together. He was an Aussie and he moved back over there six months ago. So we waved goodbye with no regrets and lots of great memories. And here I am, wondering who’s going to be the next person that something will really spark with. Watch this space…
A lady after my own heart – I’ve always preferred younger men – at 45 I find men of my own age almost old. Younger men are definitely the way to go unless a guy has really looked after himself. Jen like your style keep up the good work.